why do some people gravitate towards depending on people who don't want to be depended on. Depend on me if you're going to take my advice and take control of yourself. Don't depend on me if you just want to complain. I don't do it so I don't expect anyone else to complain complain complain and then do nothing about it. In light of my own complaints i've decided to curb the amount that I care. enough of this. I'm having enough trouble trying to delete an entire extended relationship and it's tentacle effect on my mind. Let me deal with myself for once. If I want to sleep at 12 instead of going out until 3 and getting up at 5 then understand that it's not because I don't value your friendship. Let me recover and become myself again and then I can give you more. I'm not invisible to so why do my needs never count? Because I never assert them and then they are just not recognized as ever existing.
I'm not mary mother of jesus or mother theresa so why is it that I'm always expected to subvert my own very basic needs? I did the exact same thing in my last relationship with *&&$*head. The curious part about taking this approach with men, subverting our own needs, is that they will tend to then not even realize that the relationship is completely entirely nauseatingly all about them and their needs.
Maybe not all men. I know this is a vast and sweeping assertion when it's only meant to refer to the few men who truly are all about themselves. My apologies to mankind I admit to being highly jaded.
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