What is a kiss if not two souls meeting in tender touch? pleasure inducing? the lip against lip setting off a cascade of "feel good" hormones. perhaps the kiss is an element that misleads. perhaps there is something to shomer negia.
what if I don't mean my kiss and want to brush it off my lips with aquafresh and listerine mint, so that it can be forgotten in the minty freshness promised by the mouthwash bottle?
How bizarre it must be to be a man faced with the prospect of a woman wanting nothing. No love, no promises, no candlelight dinners. Not nothing exactly but the something that only a man usually wants. was there truth to pretty woman's penchant for kiss avoidance so there could be no delving deeper? maybe. I'm nothing like Vivian from Pretty woman and am probably known more for being a hyper social bookworm, an urban freshly washed granola girl, and not much of a beauty but I'm picking and choosing parallels. Oh, movieland lead the way for me! maybe I'll have a marathon night of chick power flicks to toughen up my resolve.
This new year I'm going to do everything I can to place my heart in a bulletproof box and change the access code so that no man will ever crack it and true to effect I'll never have to relive a year like the last one, ever again.
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"How bizarre it must be to be a man faced with the prospect of a woman wanting nothing. No love, no promises, no candlelight dinners. Not nothing exactly but the something that only a man usually wants."
I have faced this, a few times. It was interesting.
the kind of interesting that you feel when you watch the nature channel? did you feel used? were you using her?
I was used and I LOVED it.
Let me add that it is critical that before the using commences that she's up front about it. No illusions. Things are better that way.
I am also happy to report that I have not had to use any women through lying or trickery and it's something I'm proud of.
the ethics of using and then refusing...hmmm. Straightup is always the best way. it doesn't seem to dissuade any guys as commodificaton of pleasure is hot I guess. It also seems to make some more persistent as if they think they can change my mind.
I understand though. there are expectations here that i run counter to.
They came to me first. I wasn't looking. These things happen.
I think it is barking up the wrong tree if the woman is not into that sort of thing. Leave her be and go about your business.
If a special arrangement can be arranged and the two adults are consenting adults then so be it. Sometimes the time and atmosphere is right and there is a moment where escape and pleasure are all that are needed. A moment is a moment. C'est la vie!
I promise to leave all women be :-) I'm not really into that hahaha
do you really think it needs to be so formal? for me the fun is about the spontaneity...special arrangement? not for me. I'm with you on a moment is a moment.
"do you really think it needs to be so formal? for me the fun is about the spontaneity...special arrangement?"
This is EXACTLY how it should be. It's no fun otherwise. Just savor the moment.
Wait are you hooking up with another chick? That's hot.
Maybe I read this wrong.
hahaha...
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